I have two grandsons 1 year apart that are always at each other. The oldest is more physical and will put his brother in a headlock, while his brother screams bloody murder. The younger boy likes to have the last word all the time, which gets him hit by his brother.

My daughter has tried to talk to them about getting along and keeping your hands to yourself. She has seperated the boys and it still doesn't help.

I am concerned that the oldest boy will hurt his brother and we have been informed the younger boy will treat a child in his class the way his brother treats him at home.

Any suggestions on how to help the older boy understand that this is not acceptable behavior?